Yahoo is on the hunt for a handful of parenting gurus. My BFF (yes that term fits, we have been BFF long before Paris and Nicole were even born), encouraged me to submit, apparently, she is tired of my unsolicited parenting advice for her schnauzer!
My husband and I come from tradition rich families and when our own precious peeps arrived, it was time to build some of our own. A weekly tradition we enjoy is going to school and eating lunch with our children. Every Tuesday, my husband and I trade out eating with the kids in their natural habitat - the lunchroom. It is snapshot into their school lives, sometimes they act like we aren't there, but if we missed it, they would notice. I open juice boxes for my son and his friends, quietly containing myself as I listen to their one-upmanship antics of the playground. My daughter and her friends love to giggle at my husband's jokes. He says, we put this time in now, so when the kids are teenagers, they have to eat lunch with us once a week, even if they won't talk to us! Even sitting with them in silence, says, "I'm there".
I'm a bit of an older than the average elementary school parent, so I should be wise or something. What I have done is mindfully watch those families that I respect, gleaning every morsel about parenting that they would share and spread the news. And if we all do that as parents our families will shine!
Forgetting
3 months ago